Happy Thanksgiving: To My Family

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My nephew at 4 months when he didn’t really care for “Twin” that much.


Hey guys! How is everyone tonight! I hope that you guys are doing great and keeping warm. I  just got in from having Thanksgiving with my family. I made everyone state what they planned on doing tomorrow on their  day off. I made them do this because it was funnier than them explaining what they were thankful for. While eating my dinner, I thought about all of the things that I am thankful for. One of them was my family.

To wake up everyday to see my son and to hear his  football stories makes me proud. I  am still wondering where he picked this intelligence up from. Seeing my nephew’s face light up to see his “Twin”. That’s what I call my nephew Rylan. To watch him grow and speak has been a blessing. This is my only nephew and he sticks to me like glue. Getting to see my three grown brothers and my one grown sister made me so happy. Watching my grandma tell her “I  hate work stories” made my day. Seeing my cousin, my mama and my stepdad made me realize how blessed I am. My ex lost his mom today and I don’t think he has found out yet. I am fortunate enough to have both of my parents and a stepparent. There are many family members who didn’t get to see Thanksgiving or another day. I want to take the time to tell my family Thank You guys and I love you.

I want to dedicate this post to memory of my Nanny, Great-Grandma Elizabeth, Great Grandma Christine, My cousin Janet, and Ms. Tiny. May yall Rest In Peace.

I want to also dedicate this post to my cousins Pooh- Pooh and Tereba. Keep your heads up and you faith in God.  We love you!

12 Things That You Didn’t Know About Me

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So I got suckered, again, into this game on Facebook. I am going to learn one day to stop liking everything that sounds sweet. I figured why not take this to the next level and use the game as a blog post! So here are 12 things that I think you may not know about me!

  1. I hate for someone to wake me up out of a deep sleep. That is the fastest way to get blowed out by me, lolx.
  2. Although I am practically afraid of dogs I love this one20130615-224533.jpg 
  3. I am related to Kevin Garrnett. No lie, he’s like my grandma’s 4th cousin or something of that nature
  4. I have the biggest crush on Drake but who doesn’t??drake-gaye
  5. I hug my pillow when I sleeppillows
  6. I have a boat load of brothers and sisters.
  7. I love making people laugh by saying and doing random things. Wait, that’s just me being me!1302854413_mister-rogers
  8. Despite what people may think, I am very friendly and a softy. I am just misunderstood.
  9. One of my best friends lives in California and we have never met in person.
  10. I believe that God has a destined purpose for all of us.
  11. My son is so funny. He had to get that from my mama.20131111-143537.jpg
  12. I have a crush on this guy….20131023-210828.jpg  ….if you know me then you know why!!!!

So here’s a funny fact. Yesterday I reached 2700 views for this blog!! This is my 660th post. My 600th post was 50 random facts about me! I will link it below..just in case you missed it!

Letter 11: Family and Holidays

31 Letters To My Future Husband



Dear Future Husband,

Hey! How are you? I hope that your are doing great today! If not, I hope that this letter will help. So I am catching up on my letters. This is letter 11 but it’s written on day 12.  In letter 11, I want to talk about family. If we do have more children besides Brelin, I hope that we can always be there for our children.  If we decide not to or its impossible to have more children I hope that we can spend a lot of time together as a family. I pray that we will spend time with your family as well as mine. If your family lives out of town or state, I hope that we are fortunate enough to see them for at least one holiday, even if its Mardi Gras, lolx. I can’t wait to decorate the house for every holiday with you and the family. I can’t wait to let our children hear the song that our parents grew up to for Christmas, The Temptations hit “Silent Night“. I can’t wait to carve pumpkins and stuff turkeys. I just want to say that my grandma cooks the best macaroni so I know you will love eating at her house on Sundays! I can’t wait to spend my days, nights and rest of my life with you and our families!

Love Your Future Wife,

Courtney ( Insert Your Last Name Here)

Boy how I hope this letter is opened during Christmas Holiday!

My 600TH Post! 50 Random Facts About Me


So I have made to 600 blog post! I wanted to celebrate by telling you guys  50 Random Facts About Me. I did a similar post on my other blog but unfortunatley its no longer available! So lets jump into it!

1.) I was born at the start of the week. I was born on Monday May 5, 1986! It was in the beginning months of Reagan’s second term and Cinco De Mayo of 86!  That’s why I am awesome lolx.


Thank my mama for this two piece and these dope gladiators back in 87.

2.) I have the biggest love for fish!  It was what my mama was eating when she went into labor with me.

3.) Pet Shop Boy’s Record “Westend Girls” went number 1 on the same day I was born.

4.) I love all 80’s and early 90’s Spike Lee movies. My favorite one is School Daze.

school dazedjiggaboo wannabe

5.) My favorite number is 5. Although I keep seeing the number 3, I love 5. I was born on 5/5

6.) I am the first everything in my family. I am the first grandchild to both my paternal and maternal grandparents. I am all of my brothers and sisters oldest sibbling. I was the first grandchild to give both of my grandparents a great grandchild.

7.) I only went to high school for three things homecoming queen, best dressed and graduation. Hey two out of three aint bad.

8.) I was the first black girl to win best dressed in my high school within my four years. I think that I may have been the first black girl ever and after. Don’t quote me on that. I do know my cousin Shawn won the next year after I did.

9.) I have NO rhythm. Yes its true not all black girls can dance.

10.) Although I hate dogs, I love my ex’s dog King. I had a chance to learn why some people love dogs like their children.


11.) I love jazz music and sunsets. Something about the two calms me. I realized that I like sunsets while watching Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.

12.) People tell me that I look like Brandy, Rasheeda and Kellly Rowland. I don’t see it.

13.) I cant listen to “Imagine” by John Lennon with out tearing up. That song is very sad to me.

14.) I love the power of coincidence. I believe that God puts you in the right places at the right time.

15.) I am a hopless romantic. I dont know why but I am like Teresa from”Passions”.

16.) I love to make people laugh.

17.) I share the same Birthday with singer Adele and my grandmother who’s birthday is May 4th is named Adell! Crazy aint it lolx.

18.) I met my ex through my ex bestfriend who dates my other ex bestfriend. I have a lot of exes lolx.

19.) I have the BIGGEST Celebrity crushes on Drake, Burt Reynolds (don’t judge me) and of course Tyler Lepley!


Yes I had to post a picuture of him and the biceps. They go hand in hand!

20.) I swear I can sing, but I cant.

21.) I cant drive worth beans. I think my instructor was giving out license for free that day.

22.) I love the rain.

23.) I panic when I have to drive in the rain on the interstate. I can’t see that well at night along with the fact I suck at driving so I go really slow. Lmbo

24.) I have a best friend of 9 years that I met on BlackPlanet.

25.) I’m very quiet until  you get to know me.

26.) I want everything my way! I know it doesn’t happen that way but its how I want it.

27.) I love to dress others.


28.) I have worked since I was 16.

29.) I had my first and only child at 20. He’s now 7.


30.) My Nephew is my twin! We share a special bond like no other. He’s my first and only nephew.


31.) I have wanted to be married ever since I was 5 years old


32.) I wanted to be in fashion since I was 9.

33.) I believe I had a past life as a 80’s back up singer.

34.) I say the most random stuff.

35.) I can’t tell a story for the life of me.

36.) My favorite stories come from ex about his family. Not only were they entertaining but it made him happy to share that part of his life with me.


37.) I  make a list for everything.

38.) I love love love Teena Marie!  Something about that woman makes her an icon.


39.) I use to read theurbangent.com and fashionbombdaily.com religiously in 2010-2011.

40.) I met one of my friends Dameion on Fashionbomb. He was fashion bomber of the day.

41.)I believe in soul mates

42.) I can not stand homophobic people. We are all people. Let’s treat each other as such.

43.) My favorite song is Lambada de Serpente by Aaron Goldberg off his album Worlds. I could listen to that song all day.

44.) I love the water. I use to live on the lake. My condo wasn’t lake front but the lake was behind my house.

45.) I hate drawing and writing. Yes, I am a blogger but I have a love hate with writing. I am a low key perfectionist and I’m impatient.

46.) I want to be fine as Halle Berry and Janet when I get 47 and no I don’t want to hear but they are celebrities. I know some beautiful regular women in their 40s.

47.) I want to marry only once in my life. I want an everlasting love like my nanny and papa.

48.) I am named after my great grandmother. I loved her so much.

49.) I have no living great grandparents. I remind my son of how lucky he is to have so many great grandparents living.

50.) I love you guys! I love that you guys show me so much love and support. I have had nothing but a positive experience since I have been blogging. I have shared some of my most intimate stories with you guys and you have done nothing but embrace me!  Thank You all for everything!

I hope that you have enjoyed my 50 random facts about me.


I Have a Big Family Part 1: Meeting The Geers


Hey Guys! I hope that you enjoyed my previous post! Be sure to check out Au$tin and show some support. He is a real sweetheart guys and pure talent! I want to tell you guys a story. Now you guys know LuLuChris58, wouldn’t be the same if I didn’t add a random post here or there. Anyways the story I want to tell you guys is about my family.

My Great Great Grandaddy had a lot of children. I am not sure exactly how many but I know he had a lot. Because of this fact I will say 1/2 of Anderson County and I are related.  This is a fact that I did not know until I became an adult. Giving birth to my own child, I decided that I wanted to meet all of my family members before I left this earth. First I asked my grandma was there such thing as a different set of Geers and she informed me that there is not. The reason that I asked this was because my dad’s last name is Davis and there are over three sets. Next I started to ask everyone with the same last name if we shared similar family members. To my surprise we did. So with all of that being said I want to share a few stories with you guys.

Meeting My Cousin Meka

One day I was in Hammerick’s Department store shopping for my son’s 4th birthday. I was so happy that they had a sale. The gifts were literally last minute. I was feeling so lucky and now looking back I know why. As I stood in the line, I didn’t mind the wait. I’m so impatient but this day I was actually fine with it.  When I finally got to the counter, the Sales Rep was very friendly. She looked at my credit card and asked me “So You’re a Geer too?” I replied “Yes, maam.” We went through the whole checklist and I found out that her dad and my grandma are actually first cousins. We have been friends ever since.

Meeting My Cousin David

I have another cousin named David Geer. So everytime I would describe him to people they would always say “Oh I thought you were talking about the other David Geer.” Well I had to meet him. My meeting with him would be by accident though. I was freshly broken up with my ex Justin and my girls wanted me to remember single life. After attending a bag party, we stopped by Wild Wings to eat. My then friend Cherelle had a bad habit of trying to “hook me up” with guys. Since she hadn’t been able to do it for almost a year, she took her chance with the first guy she seen. It was Jason, a friend of my cousin. I didn’t know it at the time. So I looked over at the table and said “Hey my dude, my homegirl thinks you’re hot” It was my cousin David. After we asked him his name, we got to chatting and I met my cousin.  We have been close ever since.

Meeting My cousin Ree Ree

I hated my job at the bank but I loved to see and help this Woman. She was always so lively and sweet. She never complained or had a bad word to say to my fellow co workers. I kept seeing that we shared the same last name so one day I decided to ask her. We did our normal checkist and found out that we were cousins! I use to love to trip with her and I hated when she decided to stop banking with us. Now I am okay with her decision. I no longer work for that company anymore, lolx.

I have more stories but I am old and I can’t think of them all. If you are a Geer, or you are simply related to me then feel free to tell your story. I will include it in part 2!


Since May of 1987 I have been a part of the Cinco De May Festivities and loved two pieces and rompers.  Just thought you guys would love to know that.

(My first birthday Party)

Day 4: The Wife I Want To Be

31 Letters To My Future Husband, The Challenge




Dear Future Husband,

Hey! How are you today? I hope that you are doing great! Right now in this present moment I am over here trying to get things done and sold. So it’s day four of the letter writing campaign, lolx.  I want to tell you about the type of wife that I want to be to  and for you!

I want to be a loving and thoughtful wife. I want to leave you notes around the house that are uplifting and inspiring.  I want to be one of those who knows when you have a bad day and have the solution to fix it. I want to be one of those wives that automatically have that nice hot bath ran to relax you when you’re tense.  I’m one heck of a masuse, so I would love to put that to use at the right times!  I want to be the wife that is forgiving and understanding. I want to be a patient wife. I want to be an encouraing  wife that helps you reach your goals and pushes you to continue to dream. I want to be your best friend. I hate sports but hey I will watch them with you.  I want to be one of those wives that you know has your back at all times. Overall I just want to be a good wife that makes a few mistakes along the way but never fails to show you how much I love you! Now put this letter down so that I can give you the biggest hug and kiss because I love you so much!

Love Your Future Wife,

Courtney (Insert Your last name here)

Preview of My Latest Post: He Doesn’t Want The Same Things

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Hey Guys! How’s everyone doing tonight? I hope that everyone is doing great! I’m  back with another Mommy’ Corner segment! Before I get into the meat and cheese of it all I just want to say that this segment is not just for mothers. I call it Mommy’s Corner because I am a mother. It’s as simple as that. Now back onto the subject at hand. I want to talk about Relationships after 25. I will break this up into a few segments. The first one I want to start with is what we want from our men after 25. I say we because I want to know some things that you guys want and expect from your guy. I will start this off with a story about myself and my previous relationships and all that jazz.

Now if you know me personally then you will know that my last serious  relationship was at 23 years old. Now when  I was 23 the relationship I had would set the standard for what I want to this very day. I had started to develop an idea of what I wanted from a man by the time I was 25 and it was commitment, marriage and more children. When my then boyfriend came to me with the same goals I knew for sure these were the things I wanted out of a man and he was that man. He was working hard towards his goals and so was I. At that time we were on the same page or at least I thought. No more games, I had left childhood behind, lolx. Fast forward to last year. I was 26 years old and single. I was still thinking about those things that I was expecting from a man and how many men I had to turn away because we were not on the same page at all. The guy of my dreams had returned but this time with different expectations. He no longer wanted commitment, marriage nor kids. It was starting to seem like the older we got, the more jacked up the priorities of men my age had became. Now I am still single and have been for almost three years because men my age do not want the same things we do.

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New Blog. I Miss You Guys

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Hey Guys! I am missing you all. My new blog domain was supposed to redirect you all over to my new site! Since I strongly believe that it didn’t I wanted to tell you guys to come on over by clicking the link below:


Again I miss you guys and I would love it if you all would come over. My other viewers do not do much talking, lolx. Plus I feel kind of sad without you all. You guys are like my family😃 Til next post✌duces and 🙏truces!


I Support: New Music From My Brother

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Hey Guys! How is everyone? I hope that you all are great. I am sitting here just finished my Independence Day shorts! I will do a show and tell post later.

I want to start a new segment called “I Support!” I have done a few pay it forward post so I now I have a name for it.

I want to introduce you guys to an up and coming artist and my brother Courvosier. His rap name is Surge Supreme. I always remember my brothers loving music but I never knew how good they were until I listened to a song that they made just playing around. (My other brother Deverron makes beats). After listening to the joke raps, I started to listen to Courvosier’s real music and I like it. I’m not just saying that they have talent because they are my brothers. I am saying this because they really do.

My brother at his photo shoot👍👍

Download his music and read his blog here👇👇👇👇👇
ok here it is http://t.co/SohFF1L5tU