Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday: Tyler Lepley Dating Game

Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday

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Open wide because it’s time to quench the thirst ladies and gents! It’s Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday! Yes! You know that LuLu not only loves the kids but we love Tyler Lepley and them biceps!  How many of you guys were thanking God for blessing us with that eye icecream at the table last Thursday. I know that I was,lolx. Sorry to my boyfriend, lolx. You still my boo.

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So after looking at Tyler’s recent Instagram photo, I wondered what a date would be like with him? Would he cook for a lady? Would he cut cartwheels with somebody? Would he fold clothes with somebody? Ok, I admit I just want somebody to fold my clothes. Anyways I had a lot of thoughts going through my mind and I figured why not ask you guys if you had the chance to get a date with Ty how would it go?  I want all of my thirsties to use their imagination and tell me how your dream date would be with Mr. Lepley. I know you guys already think of this so why not share it with the world. I just ask to please keep it PG. Nobody wants to hear about how you would get Tyler to lick  mustard between your nasty toes or sip  your nasty bath water. Cmon, he doesn’t even look like a feet guy.

I can’t wait to hear the responses! Also can somebody please come fold my clothes? I will pay you, in gratitude points!

You don’t follow Tyler on Instagram? Well get your life and click here: @Tylepley

To the person searching for “Shirtless TyLepley” go ahead and subscribe! We do this every Tuesday!

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Wasn’t he the cutest!

MC Life and Relationships After 25: Steps I Am Taking To Change

Mommy's Corner, parent family fashion

Hey guys. How is everyone today? I hope that you guys are doing great today. I met another blogger through Instagram @fromaptone from www.fromaptone.wordpress.com and she inspired me to write this post. Hey Girl! She commented on my 19 Things I Did Wrong In My Previous Relationships post. I asked her to tell me about some of the steps that she had taken to change in her life. While I was waiting on her reply I started to think “What are some of the steps that I have taken, myself”? Well I want to share with you guys some of the steps that I have taken  or really that I am actually taking.

  1. I do not unleash the “Wrath of Geer” on people anymore. Oh there has been times that I wanted to but for some reason I just don’t. The wrath consist of me letting you do more than  just “have it”. I would go off on everybody who had anything to say.No one was exempt. I would fight very dirty. I have had this chance to just go off on people but instead I have just said what I felt needed to be said and left it at  that. I still have anger issues but they are getting better. I haven’t sassed anybody nasty. ( If you watch Adventure Time, you know exactly what I mean.)
  2. I blog! Yes I know that was a given but I had a situation this morning that bothered the mess out of me! I couldn’t really do much else about so I just blogged. This helped me a lot.
  3. I look at pictures of Tyler Lepley. Ok not really but I thought that would be funny to add in to lighten the mood. Speaking of Tyler, make sure you check out his Instagram to see more pictures like this:20131119-171833.jpg
  4. I make jokes. This is something that I have always done. Even in the most serious talks with people, I have something snarky but funny to say. I dont know why, that’s just always been me.
  5. I am reading a book called “Getting Back Together”. Why am I reading this book? Well I bought it right after my ex and I broke up for like 22.00 and I started reading it and then I stopped. Well a year later I used it for my bedroom stand decoration. This year I decided to pick it up again. Not because I am trying to get back with my ex but  I remembered there was some things  in the book that helped you with fixing yourself. I figured why not! Not only will it help me restore myself and understand my mistakes, it will make me a better partner for the next go round. Besides 22.00 is a lot of money to spend on a book.  I better use it for something.

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Review coming on this book soon.

I still have a few things that I am working on and I am getting no where with. One thing is my patience with people and things in my life. I hope I don’t die an impatient person but right now it looks like I am a lost cause, lolx. If any of you guys have some tips to help me out with this, please feel free to share below.

Your Turn:

What are some things that you guys are battling with? How are you working to overcome these obstacles? What are some things that you guys have worked on in your lives? I would love to hear your stories!!!

Also be sure to check out my fellow WordPress blogger here: Fromaptone

These Are The Makings Of You!!

Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday

So guess what day it is……..Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday!!!! Yes it’s actually the day when thirst is real and okay! So I am going to quench today’s dehydration with Tyler Lepley and Curtis Mayfield! I bet  you guys are like “What the Hell”? Stick with me here, it will all come together below, lolx.

So yesterday   “The Makings of You.” By Curtis Mayfield popped up on Itunes Radio while I was trying to find material for today’s posts. I didn’t have anymore skips. Now the funny thing is Jay-Z and Kanye sampled this song for a song on the “Watch the Throne Album.” This one one of my favorite albums of 2011 and two of my favorite songs were the song at the beginning and end. ( I actually have more than 2, hey it was a dope album) The song in the beginning was “No Church In The Wild“. This song appears everywhere even in one of Tyler Lepley YouTube videos. He even quoted what I say is  Hov’s best line from this song as his caption for his Instagram photos.

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Now the last song is “The Joy” featuring Pete Rock, Charlie Wilson and Kid Cudi. One of my favorite favorite parts was when Jay come in on his verse with “This is Mama’s sh#%”. That made me love this song.  This is the song where they sampled “The Makings Of You.”

Now how do Curtis and Tyler mesh. Well I never really liked the song by Curtis Mayfield until I had a chance to listen to it yesterday and listened to the words. While I listened to the words and how sweet they were someone popped in my head and a picture showed up in my Twitter Timeline of a gentleman wearing a pair of Jordan Sneakers. Jordan sneakers are the favorite shoe of  that someone who popped up. ( That I am pissed off at right now) He favors the guy in the picture. The guy in the picture was Tyler Lepley. It happened to  have always been one of my favorite pictures of Tyler. Now do you guys see how everything relates? Isn’t it just grand???  You guys know how I love the power of coincidence. Now this song will forever remind me of Tyler, lolx.

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Shout out to @BeeBeeLovely824 for making this picutre! Hey Girl!!!! Be sure to follow all of us on Twitter and Instagram by clicking the highlighted links!

@TyLepley its the same for Instagram and Twitter

@BeeBeeLovley824 it’s same for Instagram and Twitter

@CourtneyGeer86 and @luluchris58blog

Listen to the words of this song. They are beautiful beyond belief. I can’t begin to describe the feeling I get when I hear this song. I was actually moved by some of the comments on the video.

MC:Relationships After 25: 19 Things I Did Wrong

Mommy's Corner, parent family fashion, The Challenge

 

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Hey guys! How is everyone today? I hope that everyone is doing well and feeling blessed! If not, hopefully you will get a laugh at my expense today! Anyways, we all know about the revised numbers games are that floating around on Facebook! There are many different versions and I have to admit they are actually fun to play. My best friend and I were talking about how therapeutic  it has been for us. Plus these games are being played by everyone, drama free, lolx. Yesterday, I received the numbers 10 and 9 from two different friends. I decided to combine them and blog about the 19 things I did wrong in my previous relationships!

No one ever wants to admit their wrongs whether it being in a relationship or in life in general. I mean it is a hard thing to do, especially for a know it all and low key perfectionist like myself. It’s hard but I am not above it at all. So without further ado, let’s jump into it!

  1. I didn’t speak up. Even when my last ex gave me  the platform to do so, I still held back. I found myself saying things when it was too late.
  2. I have no patience. I am like this in my real life. It’s something that I battle with daily. From my career, to my child and my love life, I can’t wait. I have to see results now or it’s not going to happen. Can’t call JG now!
  3. I forgot to pray. I believe God reveals and heal all situations.
  4. I hate repeating myself.  If I tell you in the beginning how I want to be treated, I don’t want to tell you throughout the course of the relationship.
  5. I gave up on things too easily. With the exception of my last relationship, all my other relationships when they were done, they were done.
  6. I was rude. I would go over my ex’s house and walk in with an attitude at times. Here’s why. If I came in and he was doing something and I felt that his attention wouldn’t be on me,it would hurt my feelings. Because I was the type of girl who never wanted to seem weak, I’d just sit on the bed and pull out my phone. It was just me, him, an Iphone and an attitude.
  7. I didn’t want to get to know any of my exes’ families or their friends unless it was on my time. I am very private. When you randomly bring your family on me, it weird me out and makes me nervous. I do not know why. A lot of people think because of this trait, I am rude. Now to be fair to myself, I got to know my last ex’s stepfamily, his best friend and one of his sisters. Also we shared most of the same friends. I met his mom once. That situation blind sided the hell out of me. We were just friends then. I will write a post about that.
  8. I had sex on my mind all the time! It’s true.
  9. I took my sister on dates. Now I only did this in one relationship. Sometimes my ex and I would argue about the most stupid stuff so I would bring my sister along to referee.
  10. I would argue to win. Now one thing you do not want to do is argue with me. I will get mean.
  11. I would put my relationship business on Facebook. All of it. The good, the bad and the ugly. Once again this was only in the last relationship. The other two were during the MySpace days.
  12. I would call my ex  the B word. I never realized until our breakup that it really hurt him for reasons that he tried to explain.
  13. I never listened. My listening skills got better by the last relationship but I still only had selective hearing.
  14. I told my family everything. I am the type of  person that wants to know when I am wrong. Of course most of your friends and family are going to agree with you but not mine. In this instance the almost did though. Weird but true.
  15. I told his sister our business. I told you guys I only got to know one of his sisters and I made sure that I used her as my therapist and advocate  during the last month. Not cool.  In my head I thought she would fight for me.
  16. I would compare my last ex to the ex before him. Sometimes I would do it out of spite but most of the time I would do it to say “Hey I can leave but I don’t want to.” he didn’t take it that way at all. Funny thing is the ex before him never got compared to the first ex.
  17. I let my friend call my last ex a douche bag. I called him a douche bag.
  18. I never realized how much fun I would have with these guys until it was too late.
  19. I never truly apologized for my part in each of these break ups.

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I know there are more than 19 things that I did wrong in my past three relationships because let’s be honest, I am human. A lot of these things felt so right at the time of doing them but a lot of these things I knew better. I am learning that you don’t argue to win with people you love. You end up saying things that are on your mind but they come out in the most malicious way and that is only your intent for that time. I am working on my anger, my lack of patience, my communication and appreciation skills. These are things that I not only need in my relationships but in my everyday life.

Now Your Turn:

So I ask you to try the numbers game.  Write down a number of things that you never knew about yourself, things you would like to work on or even just goals. It’s really fun and can be used as a way to say sorry to someone. Or in my case, some exes. I hope that you guys  enjoyed this post.

Side note: The two previous exes before the last ex actually have talked with me about these things. We are on good terms.

 

12 Things That You Didn’t Know About Me

parent family fashion, random, The Challenge

So I got suckered, again, into this game on Facebook. I am going to learn one day to stop liking everything that sounds sweet. I figured why not take this to the next level and use the game as a blog post! So here are 12 things that I think you may not know about me!

  1. I hate for someone to wake me up out of a deep sleep. That is the fastest way to get blowed out by me, lolx.
  2. Although I am practically afraid of dogs I love this one20130615-224533.jpg 
  3. I am related to Kevin Garrnett. No lie, he’s like my grandma’s 4th cousin or something of that nature
  4. I have the biggest crush on Drake but who doesn’t??drake-gaye
  5. I hug my pillow when I sleeppillows
  6. I have a boat load of brothers and sisters.
  7. I love making people laugh by saying and doing random things. Wait, that’s just me being me!1302854413_mister-rogers
  8. Despite what people may think, I am very friendly and a softy. I am just misunderstood.
  9. One of my best friends lives in California and we have never met in person.
  10. I believe that God has a destined purpose for all of us.
  11. My son is so funny. He had to get that from my mama.20131111-143537.jpg
  12. I have a crush on this guy….20131023-210828.jpg  ….if you know me then you know why!!!!

So here’s a funny fact. Yesterday I reached 2700 views for this blog!! This is my 660th post. My 600th post was 50 random facts about me! I will link it below..just in case you missed it!

Letter 9: The Art Of Marriage

31 Letters To My Future Husband

Dear Future Husband,

Hey! How are you today? I hope that everything is going great today! I have had a great day today! It’s day nine of the letter challenge! Only 22 more to go!  Anyways, today I was crusing Instagram and I saw a picture from a young lady. It was very sweet but so true. I wanted to share it with you.

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I want to say that I promise to always try to my hardest to never go to bed angry. I promise to always appreciate the smallest things like you deciding to wash clothes to help out or opening the door for me because my hands are full. I promise to always say I love you everyday. If you are not near me,  I will Skype or Facetime you. I will always try to forgive and forget. We all make mistakes. I know we don’t all grow up over night. I still have a lot to do and I am sure when read this letter I still have more growing, lolx. With that thought in mind, I will promise that I will have enough patience and love to offer you the safest place for growth to the best of my ability. I know in my heart that this letter will end up in the right hands, so it is my duty to be only the best partner that God has built me to be. I love you with my all plus more.  I owe you a kiss so put the letter down and let me give it to you. Lolx!

Love Your Future Wife,

Courtney ( Insert Your Last Name Here)

Thank You To @bombshellenoel on Instagram. If you get a chance to ever read this, I wish you success, joy and many years of love for you and your marriage.  I am glad that God led me to your picture!

10 Reason Why I Think Tyler Lepley is Great and So Should You!

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So You all know that Tuesdays are reserved for Tyler Lepley here at LuLuChris58! We like to call it Benny Biceps Thirsty Tuesday! Although Tuesdays no longer belong to the Tyler Perry hit series on OWN “The Haves and Have Nots, I figured we could still give Tyler his day. 

I wanted to first start out with 10 reason why I think Ty’s awesome and I think you guys will too! 

1.) He’s so handsome. Hands down he has to be one the most handsome men I have ever seen.

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2.) Look at that body!  I think he said he weighs 220 and I am here for it!

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3.)He’s a great actor. Like we know actor Leon as David Ruffin, Tyler embodied the character Benny. I have not seen Baggage Claim, yet ( yes I am slacking), but I am postive he did great.

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4.)Ladies go crazy abou a sharp dressed man. He has an incredible fashion sense. Yes, I know there’s a chance he has a stylist but trust me, I can tell when you know. 

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5.) He’s very humble! I have said this time and time again but its only the truth.  Tyler is always interacting with his fans and supporters. I would love to meet him one day and just pick his brain and touch his biceps.  Um Mr. Lepley, you need to make this happen, lmbo.

6.) Did  I mention his body. Sweet Baby LeBron!

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7.) He believes in God. Now if you believe in something else, thats cool. I respect all religions here. I just think that it’s great to see a man who constanly gives honor and thanks to God. Also, I love how he relates all scenerios in his life to something that most of us are taught as kids, God places things and people in your life for a reason!  Thank You God for moving him to LA!

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One of his scenes from “The Haves and Have Nots.”

8.) He’s in shape. He’s all about a healthy life style. ( No not the one in his pocket for the long nights either). He use to be a personal trainer.  I bet yall already knew that!

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9.) He’s my ex’s sexy twin! Yes. I actually started watching him because I said to myself “Oh my gosh; Benny looks like Warren J!” Wait do not get it twisted, lolx, I still would have watched him even if I had never realized that fact. (quick note not to take away from my ex because he’s a very handsome guy)

10.) Because he’s Tyler Lepley…duhhh. Did you guys really think you needed 10 reasons when you have that one!

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So ladies I hope that you liked my 10 reasons for Tyler’s greatness! What are some of your reasons that you like to look at Tyler?  

What are some things that you guys would like to see of  Tyler on Tuesdays? Feel free let me know!

Follow him on Instagram and Twitter:

@TyLepley

*of course none of these photos are mine*